The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves , and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. So many people prefer to live in drama because it's comfortable. It's like someone staying in a bad marriage or relationship - it's actually easier to stay because they know what to expect every day, versus leaving and not knowing what to expect.
Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do , or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together.
Truth is, I'll never know all there is to know about you just as you will never know all there is to know about me. Humans are by nature too complicated to be understood fully . So, we can choose either to approach our fellow human beings with suspicion or to approach them with an open mind, a dash of optimism and a great deal of candour.
We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant . You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even . Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now.
You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens . Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the words 'for ever.' But love can only truly be measured by actions. It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don't like doing it.
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